This summer has been rather strange. For the first time
since I was 13 I had no responsibilities. No school, no work, and most
importantly no social group. When I left BC I left my friends behind me (there
were too many to fit in my suitcases…), and my close school friends de-camped
Halifax for other cities, so I was largely left with no one but myself. Sure,
there are people in the city who I know, but I got tired of badgering people to
hang out and decided that my energy would be better spent actually doing things
instead of waiting around for other people. I’ve always been my own best friend
and I’m quite used to being alone for long periods of time, but this has been
the first time ever where I made the conscious choice to revel in my
alone-ness. Some might say this is anti-social behavior, but I have a strict
rule about friendships: I’m only willing to put into them the same amount as
the person on the other end. Which means that when I have to organize every
single social activity there’s something wrong with the friendship. Ironically,
I’m not all that bitter that other people can’t be bothered to be social with
me, because that gives me time to do all the things I want to do without having
to answer to anyone else’s agendas. I still have almost 2 weeks til my classes
officially start and the summer is finally over, but I actually did quite a lot
during the summer even though I was alone.
…Went to 5 Value Village Sales (having more than one store
in the city is awesome)
… Watched 68 episodes of True Blood
… Countless shopping trips (seriously it was a lot) but
bought very little
… Bought 2 pairs of shoes
… Bought 2 vintage Louis Vuitton handbags (yes they’re
real), and one Dior
… Completed an internship at MSVU
… Volunteered at the Centre for Art Tapes for 2 months
… Went to 8 job interviews, and applied for about 5x that
many jobs
… Went to 4 movies alone, and 1 with a friend
… Read 152 books (seriously I’ll show you my book journals
to prove it)
… Went on lots of random adventures around the city
… Wrote a bunch of short stories & poems
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